help, contacted biological father

[cnacmalmr]

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I need some help cause I looked up and contacted my son's biological father for him. He called him and then called to speak with my husband, added us to his facebook and then decided he no longer wanted to be there for the child again after 1 week of talking to him. Now he is trying to say my husband and I stalked him. We have all the messages that were sent/recieved. yes, I did look for him on peolesearch, facebook and myspace. I am also frends with his sister, who told me he was on myspace. I told him I wanted nothing from him, since he signed rights away when my son was 3, but all I wanted was for him to talk with our son cause he is asking questions, wanted to meet him and carried his pictures around. The child is 14 and a freshman in high school. I have not spoken to him but once on the phone and he called me. Now he is also saying to the court that he is in fear for his life and that I have a split personality (not true). I have no money for a lawyer, nor does my husband (he is also got a form out for him), nor have we contacted, heard from or anything since June 16 when he called it all off with the child. What rights do I have and can I get appionted help. He has done this in th epast with his other wives from what I was told by his sister. If you can help I greatly appreciate it.

[LEWIS]

If hes an ex con, more then likely he has nothing. but if he has, you have a right to try and sue. more and more cases like these are popping up across the US, so you have a shot.











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[cnacmalmr]

no, he is not an ex con, just a major jerk. he was in the military at thtwice since the child has been born and just wanted out of the responsobility of the child. at the time i thought it was a good idea but descovered i was wrong. my child is having a huge problem with it since he has become a teenager and so i tried to do right on his behalf cause i did not want him to blame me later on in life for him not knowing him. now the father is saying we stalked him, after he made us his friend on facebook and talked to my husband on the phone and sent the child messages/pictures. i am worried that we will go to jail over it, even though i never threatened him. i just asked him to contact the child cause he wanted to get to know where he is biological father. we kept every email message and will be tgaking those to court with us. i don't think i can get childsupport from him and that is ok. it would help but that was given up along with his legal rights. i am just worried about the whole "stalking" thing, even though we didn't do that. I am taking the child to court with me and will ask the judge to have the father tell him he wants nothing to do with him to his face, so the child can not say i just said that. thanks for yur help.

[lawstudent]

It always amazes me how simple people are. (I am refering to the responder not the poster) It dosn't mean jack if he's an excon or not.
If he was going for child custody MAYBE to a SMALL degree. BUT she is talking about him pressing charges on her for crimes against him. Believe it or not excons get raped and killed and messed with too, they're not free game that you can go down to the baitshop to get a permitt to do as you please with.

If you have proof of communications, just keep it.
You're best bet is to leave him alone. Thats all he wants. Let him have his pyric victory and feel like a bigshot, who cares? If he does sue you countersue if you believe you have a case. If he presses false charges tell the cops they are false and if you can prove it they can arrest him for filing a false report.

It dosn't matter if he's the pope or a serialkiller, the same rules apply.